My husbandy & I have had our ups & downs, but the two of us started going to couples therapy.
It basically was a final effort to save our marriage before the two of us both threw our hands up in the air & gave up.
Surprisingly, the couples therapy has been helping. I really loved how comfortable the place was with excellent temperature control settings. It was seriously relaxing. They basically got us both to open up about our feelings & the two of us were able to have uninterrupted dialog with the help of a mediator, then eventually it was advocated that the two of us go on a entirely nice getaway together so that the two of us could bring back our old spark. This entirely was a fantastic system because the two of us ended up at a really overpriced tropical resort. The two of us kept things civil & the two of us even ended up dancing together on 1 particular evening. I don’t think if it was the magic of the place the two of us went to or if it was the fact that the two of us were communicating better, but things started working between us again. Something the two of us l received about each other was how the two of us had particular temperature control preferences. So the two of us ended up getting Heating & A/C zone control in our home. The two of us have customized temperature control settings in strange zones around the house, & the two of us even have separate temperature control settings in our bed. These things have helped us out a good deal. The two of us really should have gotten into couples therapy a long time ago before things ever got excruciating between us. At least the two of us have been making the right moves lately, & I think it has saved our marriage.